I went through many dates before I settle down. Do I miss dating now? Yes I do, but I enjoy every single moments with you more than my dating days. I rather have you by my side than dating any others.

I remembered those time when I were single and available, single and not available, attached and available, attached and not available. Those days, some were crazy, some were sane. I got my fair bit of thrill and I never regret any of my dates. And interestingly, I never once contacted any of my dates once we were over. I never found a need to, once I walk away, we are done. There’s no turning back, regardless who’s the one to blame. 

Dear husband, you never question any of my past, you are unbothered by who I loved previously, you aren’t worried if I will ever have a change of heart. All you care and focus on is how to treat me well and treat me right. All that matters to you is my present and our future.

Others who don’t see your good questioned my decision when we first got together. Many were puzzled with our less than a year relationship when we got married. Undoubtedly, you have won the hearts of everyone around me. They seen your most genuine love and never could I find someone like you who will stand by me regardless what happened.

That’s why love is. It is not as thrilling as dating, but it brings me assurance and I know I can count on you no matter what happens. With you, I never once have to worry about financial, I never once have to worry about any big and small decisions. They say I’m independent and logical, ha! But I met you who is even more independent and logical than I do.

Having met you, I uncovered the reason why all my previous dates didn’t work out. I never have hard specific requirements, I don’t need anything too materialistic or superficial in relationship. I’m looking for that spiritual and emotional connection. I’m looking for that daily connection in life, from the small and simple things we do together. All I need is someone whom I can look up to, someone whom I admire, someone with a specialised domain and has a career whom you are passionate about,  someone who is logical and is able to convince me with knowledge and facts that I’m not aware of, someone who made me realise I’m not as smart as I think I was, and someone who can handle me. Someone whom I never had to be strong when I’m with you. 

With you, I’m like a slug, there’s almost no need for me to use my brain. Haha! Because you got everything covered for me. And I know you will do the same for our daughter. Love you, so much.